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Self-mastery through Attentive Eating
Of all the subjects in existence, it is my considered opinion, after deep reflection, that what I am about to write in this booklet is perhaps THE most important subject. A subject which can radically change a person's life in all of its aspects - physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. - Attentive eating.
It seems strange to think that the manner in which one eats, the "how", can have such an important influence in one's life.
Once I grasped the "big idea", I tested it thoroughly in my own life and then recommended it to more than dozen patients and friends to compare its effects. Two of them were professional psychotherapists and they both were profoundly impressed and fascinated with. the results.
The utter simplicity of the technique caused many people to refuse to even believe that it could lead to important changes, resulting in the refusal to even try the method.
While the method is so simple in its essence, that even all of the lowliest creatures practice it instinctively, yet, man is so conditioned in his habits, that he has to unlearn his present method of eating and relearn what he once knew thousands of years ago.
Even if a person refuses to change his diet to higher quality foods and insists on remaining with his present conventional diet, still, he will experience profound changes in all aspects of his life by applying the technique to his or her life.
So let us not delay any further - let us penetrate this mystery.
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ANIMALS EAT WITH FULL ATTENTION
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The basic needs and instincts of all living creatures are air, water and food, clothing and shelter - with food as the most basic. All life everywhere knows its needs in food to survive and every creature on this earth knows how to eat. It is an inborn instinct which does not need to be learned and it is present from the moment of birth onward - in one-celled life forms (amoeba) up to the largest animal forms in existence.
All of these living creatures, eat in the same manner. They eat with full attention, chew their foods as much as is necessary for the species and are fully absorbed in the taste of the food while they are eating it. When the sensual enjoyment of the taste begins to recede and disappear, they stop eating and walk away from the food fully content.
This enjoyment of the food, closely interlocked with the taste of the food, is how the bodily instinct guides the animal to cease eating when the body's needs are fully provided for. All living creatures have been faithfully guided by this sense of taste instinct since the beginning of time and there has never been a problem with it.
Why no problem? - Because they all eat the same way - with full attention, totally immersed in the taste of the food, even closing their eyes to avoid distraction, and ceasing when the sense of taste begins to lose its enjoyment.
Even all little insects eat with total attention.
Then why do humans have such difficulty in eating, in knowing when to eat and when to stop?
There are several reasons.
- First, people eat according to the clock, approximately 3 meals a day with inbetween meal snacks and rarely when truly hungry.
- Secondly, they eat foods which have spices, sugar and salt added which stimulate them to overeat more than the body requires.
- And lastly, because they have minds and enjoy mental stimulation, they eat with a divided attention - while reading a newspaper, or watching TV. Or conversing with someone.
In this booklet, we are going to concern ourselves almost exclusively with the last consideration - that of a divided attention.
When the attention is divided, say for example, watching TV while eating, emotions and feelings are aroused which conflict with the ideal digestive atmosphere.
This inhibits gastric and digestive secretions needed to digest the food optimally.
The great sensual enjoyment of eating, which is so basically important to the body and emotions necessary to inner happiness, is largely bypassed, because the attention is on something different than the taste of the food.
The result is that - since the taste enjoyment is largely reduced or eliminated, the body is unable to signal the eater when to stop. So the person eats, mechanically stuffs himself and stops only when the discomfort of the distended stomach signals its protest….
Eating without awareness or attention - invariably leads to overeating and dismissing the important role of the taste of the food in directing us to stop eating when we have had enough to satisfy the body's needs.
The instinct of eating is so basic, so much more frequent and urgent than the instinct of reproduction (sex), that the sensual enjoyment of food easily replaces the urge for sex.
This probably explains why bingeing in eating so frequently replaces the frustration of loneliness, when companionship of the opposite sex is lacking.
It is a known fact that stuffing oneself with food causes most of the blood to leave the brain and enter the stomach area to digest the food. This dulls and drugs the mind and effectively shuts off the thinking process, acts as an emotional anesthesia, effectively allowing us to escape from thoughts and feelings of inferiority, sorrow, loneliness, regret, boredom, guilt pressure, fear, low self-esteem, self-hatred, etc.
Unfortunately, using food as an escape mechanism from emotional problems only drives the problems in the unconscious mind temporarily.
Suppressing these problems causes them to burst forth into the consciousness with increased force, demanding attention from the conscious mind until they are properly dealt with.
They can be released and eliminated by facing them squarely with full attention and being willing to feel them totally without attempting to escape the pain involved. Often within minutes, they begin to weaken and dissipate in intensity.
Persistence, courage and repetition lead to success and freedom.
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HOW TO ENHANCE THE ENJOYMENT
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To return to our main topic. ----
Now, since the sensual enjoyment of food is the key factor that Nature uses in enticing all living creatures to seek food for its bodily needs, it is important that we direct our attention to methods of enhancing our enjoyment of food to its highest peak. Let us take a look at some of the psychological implications connected to eating.
To begin with, we should eat only when hungry. This insures our maximum enjoyment and relish of the food. We should first enjoy the sight and aroma of the food and feel gratitude. Then, as we put the food in our mouth, it is good to close our eyes to help us concentrate our attention - on the taste of the food and to shut out all distractions.
Be total in eating with no other thinking. Do not read while eating, or listen to TV or converse with anyone. To do so will withdraw most of your attention from the sensual enjoyment of the food. The attention is drawn to the emotions if you are watching TV, - to the intellect, memory and reason if you are talking or reading. When eating you should be totally immersed - - - - in the taste of the food. Nothing else should exist for you at this moment but the taste and enjoyment of the food.
It should be chewed thoroughly, till every last bit of taste is extracted before being swallowed in a liquified form.
I repeat --
Nothing else should exist for you at this moment but for you to be totally lost and dissolved in - the taste of the food. You will be so thoroughly satisfied with a much smaller amount of food that you will be content to stop eating long before you feel any distension in the stomach. When I began to eat with total attention, I stopped totally satisfied with 50 to 40 % less than the amount I used to eat before, and with much greater contentment.
If you eat unconsciously, without awareness, you will invariably eat too much because you don't know what you're doing. You stopped only when your stomach felt distended, or even bloated.
Now, eating with attention, you hardly even feel your stomach. It becomes difficult to overeat, because your sense of taste is so satisfied that you are almost impelled to stop long before in comparison to your earlier eating habits. Remember, the rule is: if you don't enjoy your food, you will have to eat more to compensate. If you enjoy your food you will eat less, there will be no need to compensate. Trust your body, because it has a wisdom of its own and will tell you through your sense of taste when to stop eating. Some days you will need more food and other days less.
You are able to leave the table feeling such profound contentment and bliss that it carries over into your emotions for hours after eating. You will find your disposition to be one of great contentment, peace and kindness when talking to others. You will find yourself happy for almost no special reason you can think of. You will not find yourself impelled or driven into social relationships due to a feeling of emptiness, because.your intense sensual enjoyment of your food has brought you into a state of utter tranquility.
Since you have not overeaten, you do not feel sleepy and your mind feels fresh and capable of thought and work, if necessary. Your sleep is more restful, dreams are more pleasant, Your personality will change drastically.
Since you are in a state of utter contentment, you will radiate your feelings outwardly in expressions of kindness and love - rather than in impatience, irritability, sarcasm as previously, before you changed your eating habits.
I am sure that the reader at this moment feels that all this is pure exaggeration. It doesn't seem possible that such a simple act could lead to such a revolutionary change in all your feelings and behavior. Yet, I must insist that not only is there no exaggeration, but rather, I am trying to hold back and understate my expressions of the wonderful and profound effects of this very simple practice.
It is a fact that the less you eat, the longer you live, the slower you age, and the more energy is available for physical and mental work. The body has more energy left for detoxication and rejuvenation.By eating with attention, you will be satisfied with very much less, 40 to 60% of before, and you will digest and assimilate more from less food.
The amount of energy you will save by eating and digesting less will be enormous. Within a few weeks you will see more youthful changes in your appearance. Your mind and feelings will soar with inspiration which will carry over into all your thoughts and activities.
It may seem logical to many people that eating while watching TV or having pleasant conversation actually enhances the meal, makes it more pleasant and enjoyable - but the exact opposite is true.
You will need almost double the amount of food before you stop eating - due to the division of attention causing a great loss of eating and tasting.
I have found in endless experiments with myself that it is almost impossible for me to gluttonize when I eat with total attention to the taste of the food. I would literally have to force myself to eat more than 60% of what I usually eat when not paying attention
The small amount of pleasure gained by the distraction is miniscule compared to the tremendous loss of taste satisfaction and ecstasy as compared to eating with full attention.
The conditioned addiction caused by almost a lifetime of combining eating with reading, talking, or watching TV is very pernicious and may be very difficult to break, even though fully attentive eating is the usual, the most natural way of eating for all living creatures.
A simple way to begin, is to try 1 meal a day for 5 days without distractions. When it becomes easier, try 2 meals and continue it until it becomes easy and enjoyable.
Then you can add the final meal. (And snacks if desired).
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BREAKING FREE FROM COMPULSIVE EATING
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Geneen Roth in her book, "Breaking Free From Compulsive Eating" (a Signet Book) advocates eating anything you desire, whenever you like, even junk food with one condition - that you eat it slowly, chew it thoroughly, and eat it with total attention and without distraction. The result is that you are quickly satisfied with a small amount before you stop eating.
She claims that since she was free to eat anything at will, but with attention, the thoughts of food gradually began to vanish, leaving her free for a much more active social life and relationships. The previous suppression of her appetites had led to obsession with food.
I have one patient, a woman who was addicted to food all her life, with bulimia, who vomited up her food after every meal. She swears that for 2 years now, since eating with attention, and since nothing is forbidden, she has stopped thinking of food, except when hungry and then she is satisfied with a small amount of food.
For those who feel they cannot give up junk food or diet at all, they can begin with this approach provided that they eat with total attention. Then when ease and comfort is gained with attentive eating, they can begin to upgrade the quality of their food, combine foods properly,etc.
Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh in vol. 3 of "The Book of Secrets", containing Discourses on Vigyana Bhairava Tantra on the ancient scripture on Tantra by Lord Shiva (in 5 vols. ) which contain all of 112 meditation techniques known, has this to say on p.19:
The fifth technique.
"When eating or drinking, become the taste of the food or drink, and be filled."
We go on eating things; we cannot live without them. But we eat them very unconsciously, automatically, robotlike. If the taste is not lived, you are just stuffing.
Go slow, and be aware of the taste. And only when you go slow can you be aware. Do not just go on swallowing things. Taste them unhurriedly and become the taste.
When you feel sweetness, become that sweetness. And then it can be felt all over the body - not just in the mouth, not just on the tongue; it can be felt all over the body. 'A certain sweetness' is spreading in ripples - or anything else.
"Whatsoever you are eating, feel the taste and become the taste."
---- Tantra says taste it as much as possible; be more sensitive, alive. And not only be sensitive: become the taste.
"With avoidance of taste, your senses will be deadened."
They will become less and less sensitive. And with less sensitivity, you will not be able to feel your body, you will not be able to feel your feelings. Then you will just remain centered in the head. This centeredness in the head is the split. Tantra says do not create any division within yourself. It is beautiful to taste; it is beautiful to be sensitive. And if you are more sensitive you will be more alive, and if you are more alive, then more life will enter your inner being. You will be more open.
"You can eat things without tasting; you can touch someone without touching; it is not difficult."
"When eating or drinking, become the taste of the food or drink, and be filled by the taste;"
When drinking water, feel the coolness. Close your eyes, drink it slowly, taste it.
Feel that you have become that coolness; it is becoming a part of your body. Allow its ripples to spread, and you will feel a coolness all over your body.
In this way your sensitivity can grow, and you can become more alive and more filled.
We are feeling frustrated, vacant - empty, and we go on talking that life is empty. But we are the reason. We are not filling it and we are not allowing anything to fill it.
We have an armour around us - a defense armour, We are afraid to be vulnerable, so we go on defending against everything. And then we become tombs - dead things.
"Tantra says be alive, more alive, because life is God. There is no other God than life. Be more alive, and you will be more Divine. Be totally alive, and there is no death for you (p. 392). "
While eating, eat: chew with awareness. Whatsoever you are doing, don't do it mechanically.
Walk with alertness, and you will walk differently: a different grace comes to your walking. You move more slowly, more beautifully....
When I say "feel", I mean observe. First do it mechanically and then with awareness, and you will be able to feel the difference.
For example, if you eat with awareness, then you cannot eat more than is needed by the body.
People go on coming to me and they say, "Put us on a diet." I tell them: Don't think of diet. Think of consciousness. By dieting nothing will happen. You cannot do it. You will do it one day and the next day it will go. You cannot continue it.
Rather eat with awareness. The quality changes. If you eat with awareness, you will chew more. With unconscious mechanical habits, you simply go on pushing things into your stomach. You are not chewing at all: you are just stuffing.
Then there is no pleasure, and because there is no pleasure, you need more food in order to get the pleasure. There is no taste, so you need more food.
Just be alert and see what happens. If you are alert, you will chew more, you will feel the taste more, you will feel the pleasure of eating. And much more time will be taken.
If you take half an hour to eat your meal, then by taking the same quantity of a meal with full awareness you will need 1 1/2 hours - thrice the time. In half an hour you will have eaten only one-third of the quantity, and you will feel more fulfilled: you will have enjoyed the meal more.
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THE BODY TELLS YOU TO STOP
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And when the body enjoys, it tells you when to stop. When the body has not enjoyed at all, it never says when to stop, so you go on. Then the body becomes dull. You never hear what the body is saying.
You are eating without being there: that creates the problem.
Be there, and every process will be slowed down. The body will itself say, "No more!" And when the body says it , that is the right moment. If you are aware, you cannot trespass the body's order. You will stop.
So allow your body to say something. The body is saying things every moment, but you are not there to hear it. Be alert and you will hear it.
The emphasis is on feeling because the emphasis is on a "lived" experience. When you start feeling things, you grow: your being grows.
Right now you are chaotic because there is no arrangement: the arrangement comes in when you start being aware. Just by being aware things start falling in line, and this chaos that you are becomes a symphony.
For those who practice meditation, the use of eating as a meditation is the easiest of all meditations to master. We, as all living creatures, are thoroughly experienced in eating, a practice we have done all our lives, several times a day since birth. It does not involve difficult concentration as ordinary meditation techniques do.
The pleasure involved in eating, automatically holds the interest of attention, almost effortlessly. This is the reason why this eating technique of meditation has been held in especially high regard by the most ancient practitioners of Tantra - since its practice leads to a profound transformation in a relatively short period of time, with a minimum of effort.
Every time you eat, several times a day, you'll be practicing meditation and this leads to rapid progress and attainment when done with your full attention.
The great pleasure resulting from satisfying such a most basic instinct as eating leads to a tremendous inner peace, joy and bliss which spreads over all the feelings and emotions, both conscious and subconscious. The resulting happiness leads to a persistent satisfaction with all of life, which keeps constantly growing and spreading in intensity.
It may seem greatly exaggerated to most persons, but it must be actually experienced, not intellectually considered, to be believed. The idea that such a simple practice could lead to such profound changes in feeling is difficult to conceive. Yet, these results are the legacy experienced by the unsophisticated and unintellectual creatures or all creation.
Why not reach out and claim your birthright of sheer joy and bliss!
Stanley S. Bass
Why is it so important to be able to control ones eating?
Because eating/digestion is a great energy-robber, and healing is done in proportion to available energy. Like this: the less (and more nutritious) food - the more energy - the faster recovery - the better health!
Read New Concepts in Nutrition, Health and Rapid Healing of Illness - Part II - "All healing and regeneration is in ratio to the amount of energy which is available - the more energy, the more detoxicating healing, the less energy available, the less the improvement."
Also read Energy - How Acquired and Lost in the Body - about how eating is connected to immediate loss of energy - and the 4 points for getting more energy (mainly correct eating, and enough sleep).
Also read The Causes of Addiction to Habits
- The Stimulation-Depression Mechanism - about how energy lows due to stimulants (coffee, sugar, alcohol, ...) cause addictive behavior.
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ARTICLES
SUPERIOR HEALTH
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| My First Water Fast |
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I was startled by the statement that all colds, fevers and influenzas were nature's attempt to free the body of disease.
I devised an experiment to test this - click here
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| Fruit - Friend or Foe? | |
He lived on nothing but grapes - By the 32nd day, his gum was bleeding - one of his teeth fell out. He exclaimed: My God, I am detoxicating my teeth - click here
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| Symptoms to Expect when Improving Your Diet | |
This initial letdown lasts about ten days, and is followed by an increase of strength, a feeling of diminishing stress and greater well-being.
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| How Diseases are Cured |
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Dr. Shelton: - It is high time to learn about the causes of disease and of the "complications" that so frequently develop under regular care - click here
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| The Time-factor in Recovery |
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Dr. Shelton: - Why do we expect to get well in a hurry of a condition that requires a life-time for its development? - click here
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| Sequential Eating | |
Any quick digesting foods must wait till the slowest digesting foods leave the stomach - a process which can take up to 6 or 8 hours.
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| How Important is Diagnosis? | |
Once the truth of how to live is understood, the process of illness can be reversed more or less painlessly by intelligent living - click here
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| How to Live 100 Years | |
If you follow a minimal diet you can achieve super nutrition. Let's look at Luigi Cornaro, who at age 35 was weak, sick, and dying
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EMOTIONS & ENERGY
| How to Solve Problems | |
The following method, ancient in its origin, has been practiced by several civilizations dating back for thousands of years.
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| Causes of Addiction to Habits |
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The key which unlocks the mystery of why most habits are difficult to break lies in the understanding of the stimulation and depression mechanism.
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| How to Overcome Temptations |
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The very moment an undesirable craving has entered your consciousness, DON'T struggle with it. Absolutely REFUSE to consider its existence
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| Attentive Eating | |
A subject which can radically change a person's life in all of its aspects - physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. - Attentive eating.
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| Energy in the Body |
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The lift we get from drinking coffee, or the expression of strong emotions - is the expenditure of energy, not its accumulation
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| Energy, Feeling and Thought |
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The person who feels depressed or negative most of the time is low on the energy level scale and needs to increase rest and sleep - click here
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| The Energy Principle in Healing - New Concepts |
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All healing and regeneration is in ratio to the amount of energy which is available - the more energy, the more detoxicating healing
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SUPER NUTRITION
| Three Generations of Hygienists |
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These children, the skeletal development wasn't right, the dental arches were not well-formed, teeth came in crowded
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| In Search of the Ultimate Diet |
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I put a group of mice on a fruitarian diet. But they didn't seem to be eating very much fruit, and they certainly weren't crazy about it
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| The Ideal 100% Raw Diet |
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My aim here was to try to find a diet of 100% raw foods that mice and equally humans could live on, with all the factors needed for excellent health
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| Vegetarian Diet & Food Plan |
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Dr. Cursio: - it represents more than 55 years of this brilliant nutritionist's experience as one of the greatest teachers in the field of Natural Hygiene
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| Vegan rats die early & have low energy |
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When the vegetarian male died it was 22.8 months old. The omnivorous male had accomplished the same amount of work when it was but 6.9 months old.
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SUPER NUTRITION - NON-VEGETARIAN
SPIRITUALITY
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